To know without having seen any proof is something that female Her, Mothers/Moms do based on Mother’s intuition, Mother-wit, Mom-knowing, and is the power behind the whimsical “imagination” of the young female Her & intuitive Mom-types, from birth. The narcissists call the Mothers/Moms crazy when she’s waking up and needs to be tricked again. But the fact is, she knows things she hasn’t seen proof of, constantly.
She sees things that let her tell the narc oppressor something that can advance his future, that he takes credit for (lying thief-narc). She can tell he’s cheating, even when he comes in fully dressed, no lipstick on him, and she hasn’t read his texts, but still she knows. She’s been tricked, bullied & oppressed to think it’s wrong “to know” what he doesn’t. She’s been bullied to hide her psychic intuitive ability in the narc’s presence, to bolster his ego. When she asks about his cheating, he gaslights her, while acting like she’s crazy for asking him about something he just hasn’t gotten caught for doing yet. By the time the Mother/Mom actually says something about what she knows, she’s known it over & over, and waits, but knew all along.
That “knowing” is proof that yes, she’s a psychic, but it also says she’s highly intuitive, which makes her capable of truly loving. This, a true narcissist is incapable of. So, if your male counterpart isn’t a psychic, and not intuitively attuned, and can’t intuitively know something before it happens—I don’t mean think it, but feel and see it before it happens of an intuitive Mom-type knowing, like a female Her, Mother/Mom naturally does from childhood to death, then he cannot truly love (sorry). For a female Her, Mother/Mom, only a narcissist’s toxic infection, as it gradually increases and spreads in her system, can gradually decrease that intuitive, psychic function as an ability of hers, that due to its blocking & damming, becomes less and less controllable, obvious and accessible, just for her being in tricked, trusting contact with toxifying covert or overt narc liars. The female Her, Mother/Mom’s ability to love, and then seek that love, is a psychic journey, as she walks this planet. Deal with it.